Marriage

[Kayana]

True enough...

Want to turn lesbian w/me, Alex?

[Outsider666]

Im married but Im an Outsider- my husband plays SWG on Gorath as a twi'lek who's apparently married or marrying in-game to another twi'lek. We've fought like never before in our 15 years over this in game relationship. As a non roleplayer, I just don't get it. I don't get why you need to have a relationship in the game, or why its such a big deal to drop the relationship if your spouse in real life opposes it ? He's decided that whats it amounts to is I can't trust him, and he wants to leave our marriage. Before I burst into tears and can't type, please will someone email me or tell me why an in-game relationship would matter that much to you ? I'd at least like the other person who's his in-game partner to at least know that he's married in real life, is that not something you do? Please help me understand........

[Jaminos]

Im married but Im an Outsider- my husband plays SWG on Gorath as a twi'lek who's apparently married or marrying in-game to another twi'lek. We've fought like never before in our 15 years over this in game relationship. As a non roleplayer, I just don't get it. I don't get why you need to have a relationship in the game, or why its such a big deal to drop the relationship if your spouse in real life opposes it ? He's decided that whats it amounts to is I can't trust him, and he wants to leave our marriage. Before I burst into tears and can't type, please will someone email me or tell me why an in-game relationship would matter that much to you ? I'd at least like the other person who's his in-game partner to at least know that he's married in real life, is that not something you do? Please help me understand........

Well personaly It is just Roleplaying it stays in the game I mean we donot really love those people In real life unless they are freinds we know before the game or otherwise. It shouldnot be worried about after all it is just a game we donot really think that they are our husbands and wives. I think that you should not get mad about it. Talk to him in a calm manner about it and see his point of veiw. I myself am merried in game but I donot really love them. I am getting merried in 4 mounths I love my fieancee (bleh cannot spell)

[Jabe Adaks]

I just don't get it. I don't get why you need to have a relationship in the game, or why its such a big deal to drop the relationship if your spouse in real life opposes it ? He's decided that whats it amounts to is I can't trust him, and he wants to leave our marriage.

I don't get it either. Regardless of what any other person here says I don't feel its right to marry in game when you have a real life wife. Some of my friends in RL might disagree with me on that point. But I don't know anybody who would disagree with that you *shouldn't* marry in-game if your real life wife opposes it. Thats just a simple matter of respect for your spouse.

I am sorry to hear that your husband wants to leave over this matter. I am by no means a professional, but whatever his reasonings are to want to end the marriage, they certainly have to reach deeper than this one situation.

I am really sorry that you ladies are having such a bad time with men. We're not all assholes - but admittedly a lot of us are and even us nice guys have times where we just do dumb things or don't think about the consequences of our actions. This is never justified, but it happens.

On the same leaf, different side, in the past I have had terrible relationships with girls who have I have gotten very close to and they simply leave. Its a heartless, cold time. But you'll make it through - I promise.

Jabe

[Outsider666]

Wow, I appreciate your responses. And "Jabe", my point exactly is where we seem to not connect: having and showing respect for your spouse. I would NOT at any time, enter into a chat, or enter into conversation in-game or otherwise without making it clear that I am married. I respect our marriage and my husband and feel deeply disrespected and shut out by his not making mention of me or our marriage. I find it hard to consider or view as "" just a game"" when quite obviously it is not so to him. When he makes comments that his in game wife ""is at least happy to see him"" I fear that the line between reality and his game is sadly blurred. I'd love to see him and spend time with him, but am unable to while competing with a fake/ingame wife.

[alexandria nexus]

True enough...

Want to turn lesbian w/me, Alex?

sure you bring the toys?

[KirtViza]

I'll Bring the camera ok kay and alex!

[alexandria nexus]

you can bring the camera if you allow us to warm the rambone up on you. deal?

[KirtViza]

ummmm...im lost since please explain

[alexandria nexus]

look it up on the internet or ask thy ball and chain im sure she might knowith

[KirtViza]

ok i looked it up but all i found was....Ewwww alex your sick

[Jabe Adaks]

you can bring the camera if you allow us to warm the rambone up on you. deal?

Hmmm... Sounds like a deal.

Jabe

[Kayana]

Sure I'll bring some of the toys... You bring some too... Perhaps we can make one of Kirts dreams come true... *evil grin*

I know I know... I'm evil... but I love it.

[alexandria nexus]

I say we punish kirt for being a man

make him wish he were a woman

[Kayana]

OMG You soooo have yourself a deal Alex!