Dwilah wrote:Part of the problem is that sometimes people aren't going to listen, even to community leaders here. The best way is to go to their guild leader, not to jump to conclusions, and remember to stay calm with everything.
I would say everything is not so much hugs and kisses as it is casual and staying at a respectful distance. If someone is running an event, talk to them and ask them to do something about the abuse.
If there is something happening at a free, open event that is not modded in any way, which we have one (Scum and Villany Night), then I would say we as a community should probably suggest a way of dealing with these types of people.
a) Attempt a polite, OOC communication requesting what you'd like.
b) If OOC request is ignored, move on to other RP for the time being.
c) If harassment or griefing occurs and OOC communcation is ignored, contact their guild leader. If they are guildless, ignore them.
I think an important thing to remember here is that if you continue attempting to RP with people who refuse OOC communication, you're inviting their harassment and your RP could be viewed as harassment by them. This could quite possibly be a key point where communication has broken down and a simple difference of RPing styles has turned into anger, frustration, and bad reputations on all sides.
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The community, as in more than the people currently being harrassed, could stick up and go "you know what, if you are going to act like this, we don't want you here"
since S&V doesn't have a "leader" or "owner" the community needs to do this. When the polite conversations are tried, which in all our cases they WERE. Via tells and ooc....then its up to the community make them NOT FEEL WANTED. If they feel like "well i can just act like an idiot, and so what if one group is pissed at me, i'll just go rp with this guy over here" but if i oversee someone being a dick via rp, and they try to rp with me i would be willing to go (via a tell) "Please rp somewhere else or with someone else, your actions are distasteful and I will be ignoring you until you straighten up"
Stop being so open palm, a little closed fist is better at times.