Well, just to make a quick...near off topic...point
I think the problem is, EVERYONE tries so hard to be different...they end up being the same...i'm reminded of (no offense to anyone) 16 years olds shopping at hot topic. Talking about "shallow preps" who spend $120 on Nike shoes, however turn around and spend $75 on a pair of ripped up jeans with flames down the side.
See...everyone wants to be that cool criminal "answers to no one but himself" and 9 times out of ten, despite what they would tell you they always wanna rp him as having a heart of gold. They wanna be Han Solo, and have their Leia win them over.
I have to believe though, that between all the "Empire killed my parents, personal friend of Boba Fett, shady criminals" someone would get bored and wanna be a rebel marine.
Part of the problem is, we are players, we are inherently "different", so people try to stand out...for people like me, i see 800 people a day trying to stand out, it gets old.
See....call me silly but i wish I could be IN trade-sec...sure i can make an alt...but everyone knows its me, and even though the rp tries to ignore that...people know its me. I wanna follow orders, i wanna fit in, i wanna be rank-in-file. I wanna be one tiny piece of the puzzle. I dunno maybe that's just me. Here's a quick way to put how i feel about some "issues" in rp in general:
Alonzo Odantis Background:
This powerful individual is part of a secret cult that harnesses the power of force crystals in ways jedi could never dream. The emperor himself is a mere glimpse of what this cult holds. Alonzo was the strongest of his cult as well.
Now...it took NOTHING to write that. I dind't have to prove anything, i didn't earn it. Are you gonna be happy if i roll into town and EXPECT you to react to my character as per my bio? No, i have a feeling i'd get ignored or mocked pretty quick. That's my problem with emote fighting and using text backgrounds to make yourself a god....
Here's one i hate....
after a fight, you emote putting a blaster to someone's head...ok you just lost a duel, a fight, you lost, could have been killed you are at this person's mercy both IC and OOC. Know why i'm hesitant if not flat out afraid to do this? Because in the 50 times i've probably done a situation like this, 48 times the person uses /emote to knock the gun away, or a friend comes up and does the same to me and its like "if you'd really walk over like that, i'd shoot your friend, please don't force me to be lame by going /emote pulls the trigger" i mean...i refuse to let their rp force me into being an emote-killer. I'm reminded of a time i was on an alt, and abducted ekade...i thought it was done well..i acted like a starstruck fan, she bought it (ego-tistical dancers, you know i love em

lol j/k) we went outside to "talk" and she humored me like a kid meeting their favorite baseball player. I asked her to look out at the sunset..she did...i cracked her skull with my gun. Now, this is emote fighting in one sense. But before you go calling me a hypocrite, ekade is non combat anyway so a duel would be pointless, plus it was a big burly trando and a little female dancer....more detials but just gimme benefit of the doubt that it was a clear scenario there of catching her offguard which is some emote fighting is fine for, IMO...ANYWAY
So ekade is laying there prone, i call my bike and emote putting her on it (man offer ride woulda been nice back then) and MAGICALLY, 50 people pour out of the roba to investigate..no blaster was fired...it was a noisy cantina inside, this was out back not even in front. The only reason people came out was because we all know spatial ignores LOS rules (be nice if it didn't for rp's sake) in other words even inside people could see my emotes outside. Now....i have a gun to her head, she's passed out. She's on my bike tied down. One guy gets right in my face and challenges me toa duel. I sent him a tell "ok i'll accept but, i'm also gonan duel ekade and i'm gonna shoot her first" well that wasn't acceptable....ok now 2 other people start emoting crawling up behind to untie her..at this point i pull out a launcher pistol...suppsoed to be an AOE gun right? I threaten to kill me and her both if they don't back off...they keep getting in my face..they were BEGGING for /emote shoots ekade, and here i was forced into a situation that went from fun to annoying and stupid. Ekade even thought so at the time, and i assume looking back she'd still agree. So i guess the overall point....emote fighting can ruin rp too, and in my opinion A LOT faster than non-emote duelling. When using emotes, i try to let peopel have "outs", many don't and this annoys me.
/emote aims his gun at alonzo, trying to keep him pinned down
that would make me hide under my table, i'd accept that.
/emote shoots alonzo in the head with a stun setting, knocking him out
WILL NOT be accepted.
something i learned quickly back in mud days....you don't emote anything DIRECT to another person. You can /emote throws a right hook you can't /emote punches alonzo with a right hook. Because what if i want to dodge? but as mentioned, with no "emote pool" there's no end, and people aren't goign to lose most times.
Kinda a long post from what i intended, but severla points kinda worked their way in this time.